Yes i've lost EVERYTHING which was oh so dear to me - I'll get over it

I hate my phone now - feel like throwing it in the bin and asking for a new one

seems dirty and 'ucky'
Well anyway i had to format my memory card - which i did and that wiped out all my memory.
Then this morning, it said it's corrupted AGAIN so i formatted it AGAIN! ... and when it formatted it then said 'memory card not inserted' so i took it out put it back in and it was corrupted AGAIN - altogether i've formatted my memory csary 12 times this morning...
Something wrong yeah? ... i'm guessing i have to get another memory card? ... please help someone i'm no good with phones!